The Middle of Everywhere: Helping Refugees Enter the American Community
Monday, February 7, 2011 at 12:40 PM in
RT recommends... A book review by our lovely winter intern, Courtenay Houk :)
The Middle of Everywhere is a personal account by psychologist Mary Pipher of her experiences working with refugees in Lincoln, Nebraska. Throughout much of the book, Pipher addresses major themes of identity and how perception of identity ultimately influences a refugee's resilience and ability to succeed in America.
Refugees may already know several languages before they learn English, but in addition to picking up a new language, they must also learn to be bicultural. Many refugees experience culture-shock during their first weeks in America and it is not uncommon for them to feel overwhelmed by the availability of choice. Through the accounts of her own interactions with refugee youth and adults, Pipher demonstrates that choice can be both helpful and detrimental to the development of an American identity. She concludes that the most successful refugees have access to cultural brokers (Americans who are willing and able to "show them the ropes", so to speak), strong family ties and/or ties to people from their own country, and the ability to pick and choose which American values to adopt and which of their cultural values to hold on to.
As a short-term RT intern, I feel that this book gave me an excellent insight into what Refugee Transitions is about. Every one of our volunteers, staff, and student leaders are a cultural-broker who are doing a world of good for newly-arrived refugees. The time and patience these individuals generously offer to others, ensures their success at building a new life in America. I also feel I have a better understanding of the students I tutor at SFIHS.
When I'm at the office, I can't help but imagine what stories are contained in every single file I organize and label. Every story is unique and contains hardships that many people in the U.S. will never experience personally. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is considering tobe or is already a volunteer for RT. This book is a pleasure to read, highly informative, and the Appendix at the back lists tips on how to work with ESL learners...I found this to be especially helpful!





